The
92-year old. petite and proud lady, who is fully dressed each
morning by eight, with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup
perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a
nursing home today. Her husband of 70 years recently passed away,
making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in
the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room
was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, the nurse's
aide provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the
eyelet sheets that had been hung over her window. "I love it," she
states with the enthusiasm of an eight-year old having just been
presented with a new puppy. "Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the
room... just wait." That doesn't have anything to do with it,"
she replied. "Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.
Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is
arranged... it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to
love it. Its a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have
a choice: I spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have
with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and
be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a fight, and as
long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the happy
memories I've stored away... just for this time in my life.
Old age is like a bank account, you withdraw from what you put in".
So my
advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
account of memories.
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
- Free your heart from hatred.
-
Free your mind from worries.
- Live simply.
- Give more.
- Expect less.
FAMILY
Are you aware that if you died
tomorrow, the company that you are working for could easily replace
you in a matter of days? But, the family you left behind will feel
the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it,
we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise
investment indeed, don't you think?
DANDELIONS AND PUDDLES
When I look at a patch of
dandelions,
I see a bunch of weeds that are
going to take over my yard.
My kids see flowers for Mom and
blowing white fluff you can wish on.
When I look at an old drunk and he
smiles at me,
I see a person who probably wants
money and I look away.
My kids see someone
smiling at them and they smile
back.
When I hear music I love, I know I
can't carry a tune
and don't have much rhythm so I sit
self-consciously and listen.
My kids feel the beat and move to
it. They sing out the words.
If they don't know them, they make
up their own.
When I feel wind on my face,
I brace myself against it. I feel
it
messing up my hair and pulling me
back when I walk.
My kids close eyes, spread their
arms and fly with it,
Until they fall to the ground
laughing.
When I pray, I say thee and thou
and grant me this, give me that.
My kids say, "Hi God! Thanks for my toys and my
friends. Please keep the bad dreams away tonight.
Sorry I don't want to go to
Heaven yet. I would miss my Mom and Dad."
When I see a mud puddle I step around it. I see muddy
shoes and dirty carpets.
My kids sit in it. They see dams to
build, rivers to cross and worms to play with.
Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you may
look back and realize they were the big things.
Just a reminder about the important things in life.
I wish you mud puddles and
dandelions...




God's Rainbows
Footprints in the Sand